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Bryce Bennett Finds Olympic Edge In Parenthood

Bryce Bennett has a new title, and it's his favorite one yet: dad.

The two-time Olympic skier is going for his third Olympic Team. Bryce is 33 and has spent nearly half his life on the U.S. Ski Team.

Bryce and his wife, Kelley, welcomed their first child, a daughter, this spring.

"You have this thing that is totally dependent on you," Bennett said. "You're in total love with it. And you will do anything to give it as many opportunities as you can."

One of those opportunities will be a front row seat to her dad trying to make his third Olympic Team after 14 years of competing with the U.S. Ski Team around the world.

"Kelley is going to come over, and we're going to rent an apartment and spend a lot of time in Europe this winter. The little baby is going to come over, and we're just going to live life and figure it out," Bennett said.

Bryce grew up in Tahoe City, CA, and skied at Palisades Tahoe as a kid. He was a teenager when he made the U.S. Ski Team. In the 2022 Beijing Winter Olympics, he finished 17th (Super G-Men) and 19th (Downhill - Men). In the 2018 PyeongChang Winter Olympics, he finished 16th (Downhill - Men) and 17th (Super Combined - Men).

His goal for 2026? 

"My ideal year this year would be have an insane season, which is doable. Win the Olympics, take your trophies, and put them deep in the basement. And then go on and live your life," Bennett said.

Bryce is known for a few things off the snow. One, he has a lot of hobbies, including fishing. You'll see as many "big ole fish" pictures on his Instagram feed as you do ski runs. The second is his incredible sense of humor.

And that's why I picked Bryce to lead off our launch of Dying to Ask: The Road to Milan-Cortina.

Get ready to laugh out loud as Bryce describes what it's like to be a pro skier when you're 6 feet 7 inches tall. Find out why being a parent as a winter Olympic athlete is like being a unicorn on the U.S. Olympic Team. And get some perspective on why being in tunnel vision with a goal is pointless.

On this Dying to Ask: The Road to Milan-Cortina:

• How rare it is to be a parent on the U.S. Olympic Team
• The edge Olympians say parenthood gives them
• How Bryce stays motivated after spending nearly half his life on the U.S. Ski Team
• The value of having hobbies outside your day job

 

 

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Stressed Or Thirsty? Fight Anxiety With Your Water Bottle

Stressed out? Try drinking a glass of water.

Dehydration can mimic the symptoms of anxiety.

Being properly hydrated is good for your energy, fitness and skin. It's just as important for your stress levels.

A recent article in Women's Health broke down a study on the effects of being under-hydrated on anxiety and future health.

Abigail Cuffey is the executive editor of Women's Health.

"The researchers ultimately found that those who were drinking lower levels of fluids, lower levels of water — they had a bigger reaction to stress, and they put them through various stress tests. And those who were less hydrated had a bigger reaction, had a more powerful reaction to stress," Cuffey said.

We've always known proper hydration is key for good energy, fitness and skin. Now we know it can impact mood. Think of your water bottle as another tool, like meditation, to control stress.

"Now, is it going to magically take away all of your problems? I wish it could remove all the stress. But it really can help, and these really simple, easy things that we do also just make us feel like we're in control," Cuffey said.

On this Dying to Ask:

• The link between being properly hydrated and stress levels
• Why dehydration mimics anxiety
• A simple way to know if you're drinking enough water
• How dehydration impacts your future health
• How much water should we drink daily?

Why Audiobooks Are Awesome For Your Mental Health

Audiobooks are booming in popularity and they are a fun way to boost mental health.

A calm voice can actually lower your stress hormones just like meditation does.

Publishers Weekly reports the audiobook industry grew 13% in revenue last year, marking more than a decade of double-digit growth. Americans are listening more than ever while while commuting, working out, or just winding down at night.

Lonely?

An audiobook can be surprisingly comforting. There's something about having a voice in your ear, telling you a story, that is intimate. That sense of connection is can really impact your mood.

Need to improve focus?

Stop scrolling and start listening. Give your busy brain a break.

On this Dying to Ask:

• 5 ways listening to audiobooks is good for your mental health
• 5 places to get audiobooks, including one that is 100% free

3 Stress Resets That Work Almost Instantly

Stressed out? A recent Gallup poll shows one in two Americans is stressed out every day.

The poll found it's affecting how much and how well we sleep. And women are slightly more stressed than men.

Dealing with that level of negative emotion is exhausting. But it doesn't have to be.

You can lessen stress in just minutes with a few resets to your routine and lifestyle.

On this Dying to Ask:

• 3 simple stress resets for when life gets overwhelming
• The science behind why they work
• And a blueprint on how to fit them into your day when you're turning into a stress ball

From 'Paralyzed To Powerful' With Robert Paylor

What would you do if your whole life changed in one moment? Robert Paylor can actually answer that question because it happened to him.

He's defying odds and inspiring people across the country.

His new book is called Paralyzed to Powerful. It's equal parts memoir and motivation and tells the story of what happened after he suffered a catastrophic injury in a televised college rugby match in 2017.

Robert Paylor was a rugby star at Jesuit High School who went on to play for Cal Berkeley. His injury happened during an illegal play during the 2017 National Championships.

It left Robert a quadriplegic.

Paylor says, "On day one, I was told I'd be lucky if I could feed myself, so what I'm doing today is just sort of miraculous. And I'm taking everything I can get."

Paylor went through years of grueling rehabilitation and credits his athlete's mindset, faith and support from family and friends for all that happened next.

Paylor graduated with a business degree at Cal, became a motivational speaker, got married and is expecting his first child.

Life looks a lot different eight years later.

"I can walk 500 yards in my walker now. I've had about 80% return in my upper body and it continues to progress here 8 years out," says Paylor.

Get ready for a mindset masterclass.

On this Dying to Ask:

• The impact of mindset in any physical recovery
• The question Robert asks himself to push through hard days
• How to find purpose in life's darkest challenges
• And a reality check on who really benefits when you forgive someone

Change Your Day By Saying 'Tell Me Something Good'

Want an instant pick me up? The simple phrase "tell me something good" can dramatically change your day.

What happens when someone tells you something great doing on in their life?

Unless you're the jealous type, it probably makes you feel good too. You get a little hit of dopamine just by hearing another person's excitement.

But why is that?

The answer is something scientists call emotional contagion. It's the idea that moods spread, for better or worse. Contagions typically aren't good. But, in this case, catching someone else's joy can actually lift your mood.

If you've ever been dragged down by a "Debbie Downer," you know how powerful negative energy can be. The flip side is true too: get around someone who's celebrating, grateful, or just genuinely happy, and you'll likely feel lighter yourself.

It's a concept called freudenfreude and you can read more about it at this article I reference in the episode.

That's the power of asking the simple phrase: "Tell me something good."

On this Dying to Ask:

• Why sharing good news is so powerful
• Three ways it impacts your connection with others
• And what happened when I asked some of my KCRA colleagues at the station to tell me something good

 

 

Avoid the September Scaries with Teo and Fitz

If you’ve ever felt a little anxious as summer winds down and routines ramp up, you’re not alone. You might have a case of the September Scaries.

My morning show partner, Teo Torres, is my co-host on this episode, where we talk about this end-of-summer phenomenon.

Think of it as the seasonal cousin of the Sunday Scaries.

The September Scaries are not an official diagnosis. But psychologists say they're the real deal, and re-framing your view of September can help.

On this Dying to Ask:

• Teo and I will break down what the September Scaries are and what it isn't
• And we'll offer you a five-step plan to give it a try

Disclaimer: We also get off topic A LOT because, well, we're us. 

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5 Steps To Trying The Japanese Walking Trend

Have you been walking wrong all your life? According to TikTok, the answer is probably.

If you’ve scrolled through TikTok or Instagram lately, chances are you’ve seen videos about the Japanese walking trend. Some posts call it a weight-loss miracle. Others say it’s the secret to why people in Japan live longer, healthier lives.

What's real and what's really just hype?

The Japanese walking trend is a combo of basic habits a lot of Japanese people share. It involves mindfulness, breathing patters and purposeful movement. People in Japan have been living that way for hundreds of years.

But TikTok has now discovered what a lot of people are calling the ultimate health hack.

Bottom line, giving the trend a try isn't going to hurt you. In fact, it will probably make you feel more calm, energized and happy.

The best part? You can try it anywhere. You don't need a gym or fancy equipment. You can even try it while pacing your living room!

On this Dying to Ask:

• What the Japanese walking tend is and isn't
• A 5 step plan to try it out
• And why it makes a lot of sense that Japan leads the way in living long and happy

Living Your Best (And Fittest) Life With Denise Austin

Denise Austin is one of the original fitness influencers. And she's as passionate about getting America moving as she was in the early 1980s.

Denise got her TV start as the first fitness correspondent on the Today Show. She was a natural and quickly became a household name.

That led to a daily 30 minute exercise show that aired for more than 20 years. She went on to sell more than 25 million exercise VHS tapes and DVDs. She authored 12 best selling books.

More than 40 years later, Denise is still sharing workouts on social media and YouTube. And, her daughter Katie is a popular fitness influencer for Gen Z and millennials.

How'd she stay passionate about her job for more than four decades?

"You go to meet the people, you feel the love . You think, yeah, this is why I'm doing it. They tell you their stories, and how much better they feel," says Denise.

In this episode, Denise shares how she maintains her positivity no matter what obstacle life throws her way. We're going beyond fitness and getting advice on growing a business, growing a family and growing older with her community.

 

On this Dying to Ask:

• Find out how Denise cold-called her way into becoming the first fitness reporter on the Today Show
• How she turned that opportunity into a 40 year empire
• How she keeps up her famous energy
• Why she still believes 30 minutes a day is the key to aging well
• And how her daughter Katie is following in her footsteps as a Gen Z and Millennial fitness influencer

Eat This, Not That to improve your mood with Dr Candice Seti

You are what you eat. And if you're stressed or depressed, you might be able to blame your lunch.

Dr. Candice Seti is the author of Shatter the Yoyo. She's a food psychologist. She studies the brain-body food link.

"It's the idea of nutritional psychiatry and the idea of connecting how food makes us feel. And there are certain foods that make us feel better than others," says Dr. Seti.

Omega 3 rich foods like salmon are great for brain health. Fruits, veggies and seeds? All good.

But other foods can be a torpedo to your mental health. No surprise, it's anything sugary or processed.

Dr. Seti says, "People don't always make the connection that when your brain is healthy your body tends to be healthy, and when you're lacking these things we're more likely to be depressed."

Understanding the why might be exactly what you need to make better choices. And shifting your behavior can really help in stressful times.

On this Dying to Ask:

• Foods to boost your mood
• Foods most likely to bum you out or increase anxiety
• How your food choices impact your mental health
• Ways to make the mind-body connection between what you eat and how you feel
• And a deep dive into the field of food psychology